How to dress sexier for your man
After having baby number 2 and going through that postpartum stage where you barely have enough time to shower or do your makeup. I realized that I wanted to dress sexy! And while most women desire to dress sexier for their man ( nothing wrong with that) I really wanted to dress sexier for myself first and my husband second.
As I was going through my wardrobe, I realized that my clothes selection was very safe, and that there was no versatility in my options. As someone who has layers to their style, I realized that I was solely focused on one layer and because of that I found my wardrobe very boring and it wasn’t reflective of my age nor my style preferences.
What Is The Sexy Fashion Style
While most will simply stop at sexy is a state of mind which is partially true. It’s also in what you wear and your confident level will play a huge part in this. The sexy fashion style often consists of skin tight clothes, revealing a lot or subtly revealing parts of your body such as your figure, cleavage, legs, lips etc.
You can even go as far as playing with your color selection which is often red that portrays that sexy style.
How Can A Woman Look Sexier
If you desire to dress sexier, then you first want to think about the level of sexiness you want to achieve.
Decide What Areas On Your Body You Want To Emphasize
This is key as it will help you determine what type of items you should be shopping for.
If you want to focus more on your breast, then go for more low cut tops. You can even add necklaces into your wardrobe to help accentuate your breasts. You should also invest in a good supportive and sexy bra.
If you want to highlight your curves, then you want to shop for more form fitting clothes that will look good on your body shape. Learn more about your body shape here. Some items you can wear to emphasize your figure is a wrap dress, body con dress, bodysuits, bodycon skirts etc.
Develop a Go-To Makeup Routine
I believe a makeup routine is more for you than for your significant other. Most men do not like makeup or lipstick. But again with the mindset that you want to dress sexier, a makeup routine will really help boost your confidence.
I recommend keeping your makeup routine simple if you are not into makeup. Something you can invest in is getting your eyebrows and eyelashes professionally done. Those two things will instantly make you look naturally sexy.
I also suggest finding that lip color that really makes you look and feel sexier.
Keep your nails & toes done
Keeping your nails and toes done doesn’t have to be expensive. During the 2020 lockdown, I began doing my own nails and toes. And here we are 2 years later and doing my own nails has been a huge money saver and it’s also a form of self-care for me.
Find a perfume that works for your body
There is nothing like a woman that smells good! But better yet have you ever met someone who smelled so good that when they left the room you could still smell them lingering? This is what I like to call a lasting impression fragrance.
Make a habit of pampering yourself.
By pampering yourself, you can make a habit of developing a skincare routine. Investing more into your body care, by shopping for hygiene products that not only smell good but really nourish your skin. During your pamper time you want to make sure that you are shaving or even go and get a wax or laser treatment.
Be more confident
Confidence is a mindset! You can do all of the external things and still lack confidence. You want to build up your confidence by changing the way you view yourself.
Take care of your dental hygiene
This is key, especially if you are dressing sexier for your man.
Update your undergarments
I know it’s so common for us women to have our underwear for that time of the month. Or honestly, because we just love comfortable underwear. There are a ton of comfortable and sexy panties that you can invest in. I also suggest getting fitted for a new bra.
Learn more about underwear by checking out this blogpost here
Find Sexy & Comfy Pajamas
Have you seen the TIK TOK trend of women in their oversized t-shirts and their husband still approves? Well, this is true! Oversized t-shirts are still sexy to wear to bed. However, you can always take it a step further and really invest in sexy underwear.
What Clothes Make You Look Sexier
Now that we have covered some of the basics to help you look sexier. It’s time to help you identify some sexy clothing items to help you put together sexy & seductive outfits.
How Can I Look Sexy & Classy
Looking sexy and classy is all about balance. For example, if you want to wear a bustier but still look classy. You can wear the bustier under a blazer with a pair of trousers. You want to make sure that you balance out your classy pieces with your sexy clothing pieces.
The Best Short & Sexy Dresses
Sexy Silver Mini Dress- If you are looking for a sexy dress that doesn’t look cheap but has that glamorous/luxurious feel to it. This silver mini dress is the perfect option for you. This dress goes up to a size XL.
Short Sexy Plus Size Dress- Finding sexy plus size dresses can be a challenge. But no worries, that's exactly what I am here for. This sequin plus size dress is far from frumpy; it has all of the right cut outs in the right places.
Sexy Bodysuits For Women
Sheer Long Sleeve Bodysuit- This sexy sheer bodysuit is perfect for a night out. You can easily pair it with black jeans, a mini skirt or even a pair of trousers.
Criss Cross Halter Neck Bodysuit- If you are plus size and you love to show your cleavage. This criss cross halter bodysuit would pair greatly with a pair of trousers, jeans, mini skirt etc.
The Best Sexy Lace Bralette
Gray Lace bralette- What I love about this bralette is that you can always wear it as a top rather than under your top. This bralette also comes in a ton of different colors.
The Best Sexy V-Neck Tops
Plunge V-neck top- This shirt is super sexy, the material is soft and stretchy making it super comfortable to wear. It also comes in 7 colors. I recommend wearing some bra tape to hold your breast up.
Plunge Neck Tie Back- If you have a smaller bust this top would really compliment you. It’s super sexy and revealing and can be styled in so many ways.
Sexy Red Dress
Plus Size Sexy Red Dress- This dress is so flattering and will hug your body in all the right places. It also has a zipper which is perfect so you don’t have to worry about pulling the dress up on you.
Red Off the shoulder bodycon dress- This dress is super stretchy, comfortable and form fitting. For some the dress runs a little big because it does have a bit of stretch in it. But it also is true to size for many. The perfect date night dress.
Sexy Bustier
Flounce Sleeve Bustier- I’m always on the hunt for tops that have some sort of detail that makes the most basic outfit stylish. This flounce sleeve bustier is the perfect example. It comes in 4 colors that are a great way to spice up your date night look.
One Shoulder Mesh Bustier- This bustier is my favorite. I love the difference in textures. I honestly think a leather skirt would pair perfectly with this. When shopping for bustiers you want to make sure that you shop for your bra size as well.
