A Realistic Maternity Style Guide
Thinking back on my pregnancies, it's like a mix of sweet and tough moments. When I was pregnant with my daughter in the hot summer, I quickly learned that finding the right maternity clothes wasn't easy. Most of my weight went to my thighs, making pants a no-go. Dresses were my go-to because they were just more comfortable.
Six years later, when I was expecting my son in the winter, it was pretty much the same story with my thighs. This time, leggings were my lifesaver. I wish I had tried out more styles while I was pregnant, but honestly, I just didn't. The first few months with my son were tough, especially with morning sickness that kept me on the couch most of the time. But eventually, I found my must-haves: leggings, comfy tops, and nursing bras. And if I needed to dress up a bit, I'd pick a stretchy dress that was easy to wear.
I know every pregnancy is different. Some women seem to rock their maternity style and have fun with it. I found my fun in other ways, like playing with my hair, makeup, and accessories. Later on, I started to get a bit more adventurous with my outfits, layering bodysuits with cool sweatpants and a flannel, topped off with sneakers.
So, here I am, writing the blog post I wish I had when I was pregnant, both with my son and years earlier with my daughter. I want to share the essentials, the real-deal must-haves that would've made my life easier. This post is all about showing you the basics, without any fuss, just what you really need when you're expecting.
Understanding Maternity Wear Needs
Trimester Breakdown:
First Trimester: For many, this period involves minimal body changes. Opt for breathable fabrics and elastic waistbands for comfort. A good pair of maternity jeans and a versatile belly band can make your regular clothes more comfortable as your belly starts to grow.
Second Trimester: As your bump becomes more pronounced, investing in maternity basics like stretchy maternity leggings and tops becomes essential. Old Navy's Maternity Full-Panel Leggings are a great start, offering both comfort and style.
Third Trimester: Comfort is key during these final months. Look for items with plenty of stretch and support, such as the Motherhood Maternity Secret Fit Belly Leggings. Maxi dresses and long, flowy tops can also provide comfort and style.
Maternity Fashion Essentials:
Maternity Leggings
A staple for any maternity wardrobe, like the Old Navy's Maternity Full-Panel Leggings , which offer comfort and versatility.
Supportive Maternity Bra
Essential for the growing bust, the Bravado! Designs Body Silk Seamless Yoga Maternity/Nursing Bra provides comfort and support.
Elastic Waist Tops
Tops like the H&M MAMA Fine-Knit Top adapt to your changing body while maintaining your personal style.
Incorporating Non-Maternity Pieces:
Utilize belly bands to extend the wear of your pre-pregnancy jeans. The Ingrid & Isabel Bellaband is a popular choice.
Elastic bands can also give extra room, allowing you to wear your favorite pieces longer.
Flowy tops , tank tops and tunics from your existing wardrobe can accommodate a growing bump for a time, offering a seamless transition.
How To Build Your Maternity Wardrobe
First-Time Must-Haves:
Start with basics like the Seraphine Maternity & Nursing Bra for necessary support.
A pair of versatile maternity jeans, such as the Spanks Mama Ankle Skinny Jeans, can be dressed up or down.
Comfortable, stretchy fabrics are your best friend; consider adding the ASOS DESIGN Maternity Leggings to your collection.
Mix and Match Strategies:
Create multiple outfits with a few pieces by investing in versatile items like the Target Maternity Tank Top, which can be layered or worn alone.
Old Navy's Maternity V-Neck Tee is another great layering piece that provides comfort and style.
Transition Pieces for Post-Pregnancy:
Look for items that can be worn even after your baby arrives, like the H&M Ribbed Knit Maternity Dress perfect for maternity and beyond.
The Belly Bandit Mother Tucker Leggings not only support your belly during pregnancy but also help with postpartum recovery.
Maternity Outfit Ideas for Every Occasion
Casual Looks
For everyday comfort without sacrificing style, pair a classic maternity jean, like the Madewell Maternity Over-the-Belly Skinny Jeans, with a soft, flowy top such as the A Pea in the Pod Ruched Maternity Tunic. This combination ensures ease and elegance for daily wear. For extra coziness, add a pair of comfortable sneakers and the versatile Gap Maternity Softspun Knit Layering Cardigan.
Work Attire
Professional and polished maternity looks are achievable with pieces like the H&M Maternity Pencil Skirt and the H&M Maternity Wrap Top, offering both style and flexibility for the office environment. Pair these with a supportive pair of maternity tights, like the Motherhood Maternity Opaque Tights, and comfortable yet chic flats for a complete work-ready ensemble.
Special Occasions
Special events during pregnancy call for outfits that blend comfort with celebratory elegance. The PinkBlush Maternity Chiffon Maxi Dress is perfect for baby showers or maternity photoshoots, offering a flattering silhouette. Elevate the look with a statement necklace and comfortable wedges. For cooler occasions, the H&M Before & After Pregnancy Nursing Dress paired with the Ingrid & Isabel Maternity Lace Cardigan strikes a perfect balance between warmth and style.
Shopping for Maternity Wear
Where to Buy:Retailers like Old Navy and Aritiza offer extensive maternity lines that cater to various style preferences and needs. Shopping online at stores like ASOS or Nordstrom provides a wider selection and the convenience of trying on clothes at home. In-store shopping, however, allows for immediate fittings and the tactile experience of feeling the fabrics and assessing the fit directly.
Affordable Finds and High-End Options:For budget-friendly maternity wear, H&M and Target's maternity sections offer stylish basics without breaking the bank. For those looking to splurge on key pieces, consider designer maternity brands available at Nordstrom or specialty boutiques like A Pea in the Pod, where you can find premium fabrics and cuts.
Customizing Your Maternity Style
Adapting to Your Changing Body:Embracing your new shape is key to feeling confident and comfortable. Invest in pieces that highlight your bump, like form-fitting dresses or tops with ruching details. Remember, your comfort is paramount, so choose fabrics and cuts that make you feel your best.
DIY Tricks and Tips:
The hair-tie trick allows you to extend the waist of your regular jeans: loop a hair tie through the buttonhole and around the button for an instant bump accommodation.
Look for non-maternity dresses with empire waists or plenty of stretch, which can beautifully accommodate a growing belly and can often be found in your existing wardrobe or at stores not specifically catering to maternity wear.
Your maternity wardrobe should reflect your personal style while accommodating your growing bump. With these outfit ideas and shopping tips, you can maintain your unique style throughout your pregnancy, ensuring you feel beautiful and comfortable at every stage. Remember, the key to maternity dressing is finding pieces that make you feel like yourself, just with a little extra love around the middle.
